The second best feeling in public speaking

There’s an emotion you should aim for when presenting, as it tells you a lot about how your talk will go...

Simon presenting a lecture

I gave the keynote talk at a conference recently.

As always with such events, it was a big moment.

The way the day kicks off is critical for setting the expectations for the rest of the time.

- The keynote is so called for a reason.

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I had an hour to do on my favourite subject, storytelling.

The talk was in London, and, as is my way…

I went through it a couple more times on the train as I travelled.

Which is when this lovely feeling started to spread through me.

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I felt calm, confident, and energised.

In other words, the second best emotion in public speaking.

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Why did I feel that way?

Because I put the talk together a couple of months before the event.

I spent a few more weeks polishing and perfecting…

Then another month of practising.

Not every day, but pretty much every other day.

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Which meant I knew I was very well prepared to deliver the talk.

Hence that wonderful feeling of confidence and calm.

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So, if you want to enjoy the second best emotion in public speaking…

Therein lies the simple, but so very important lesson.

You can’t prepare and practice enough.

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Which leads me to the final point of this blog…

The question you're no doubt asking:

- What then is the best feeling in public speaking?

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To which the answer is simple:

That wonderful emotion when you’ve finished…

You get a huge round of applause…

The room is full of smiles…

And lots of people come up to you afterwards to say what a great talk it was.

(All of which, of course, comes courtesy of the second best feeling in public speaking!)



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